Couples therapy is
$250 a session.
Tara is $25 a month.
Tara sits between you. An AI mediator for the fight you keep having, so you both walk away heard.
Sound familiar?
You’ve had this fight before.
Working late, again. The in-laws. Who did the dishes. Underneath every one of them, one of you doesn’t feel heard.
Therapy helps a lot of couples. It also costs a lot, insurance usually won’t pay for it, and no therapist is in the room at 11pm, when the fight is.
of relationship problems are perpetual. They come back, even for happy couples.
The Gottman Institute
years
on average, from serious problems to a couple’s first therapy session.
Doherty et al., 2021
Why TaraMost AIs agree with whoever’s typing.
Most AIs agree with whoever’s typing.
Tara makes sure both sides are heard.
She’s not on either side. She’s not a therapist. She’s not a person.
01
A method, not a mood.
Every untangle follows 5 steps: what happened, how it felt, what you need, what you appreciate, what you’re asking for.
02
A private word, mid-fight.
Lean over and ask if you’re being unreasonable. She’ll tell you the kind, true thing, and only you see it.
03
She slows it down.
When it runs hot, she slows the room and gets three yeses before anyone tries to fix anything.
How it works
Start with you. Finish together.
01Start alone.
Just you and Tara, about 10 minutes. Tell her what happened, and she helps you find what the fight is really about.
02Figure out the message.
Tara helps you turn what you feel into words they can actually hear. Send it to them, or copy it.
03Untangle together.
Your partner joins free from a link. Tara takes turns, keeps it fair and checks you each were heard.
Why trust Tara
What Tara will do. And what she won’t.
An AI in the middle of your relationship should have rules you can read. These are hers, and they’re written into how she works.
Tara will
- Ask one question at a timeSo nobody gets a speech, and nobody gets steamrolled.
- Give you each a turn, fairlyShe keeps time and slows it down when it runs hot.
- Check you were heardYour partner says it back. Tara checks it landed.
- Tell you the kind, true thing, privatelyA private word mid-fight, and only you see it.
Tara won’t
- Take a side or say who’s rightShe’s a mediator, not a judge.
- Show your partner what you wroteNothing you write is shared until you share it.
- Train AI on your conversations, or sell themStored conversations are encrypted with AES-256.
- Handle a crisis or abuseShe pauses and points you to real people who can help.
AES-256encryption for stored conversations
Delete it allfrom your account, any time
Crisis pausereal helplines, a tap away
Untangle is not therapy and not for emergencies. Tara’s method is WinWin Conversations by Kamal Sarma, with Nonviolent Communication underneath.
Pricing
A whole year of Tara costs less than a month of therapy.
Every fight, any night, no appointment. 3 days free, then $25 a month for both of you. Cancel in a tap.
The Untangle membership
3 days free.
$25/month after
Try it on a real fight. Everything here is included, and your partner joins free.
Download on the App Store- Your first untangle is free
- Nothing charged until day 4
- Cancel anytime, in a tap
- A paid month that didn’t help, refunded on the web
- Your partner joins free
- Unlimited untanglesTara mediating, one phone or two
- The Repair6 evenings of what couples therapy teaches
- 6 Renew decksCard games for the good nights
- 10 guided exercisesThe homework of couples therapy, lineage named on every card
- The WeeklyThe 20-minute meeting therapists assign first
- The Session BriefYour week on one page, for your therapist
- The mid-fight ToolboxFree for everyone, forever
- Everything we ship nextNew decks and exercises included
Your 3 free days start when you add a card, and you can cancel anytime. Prices in USD.
QuestionsEvery reason not to,
Every reason not to,
answered.
Can an AI actually help with this?
With one thing, yes: getting what you feel into words your partner can take in, and checking they did. Tara asks one question at a time, never takes a side and slows things down. We have no study of Untangle yet, so don’t take our word for it. Your first untangle and first 3 days are free. Try it on a real fight.
Is it private? Will my partner see what I said?
Your partner sees nothing you wrote until you share it, and a private word with Tara stays private. Stored conversations are encrypted with AES-256. They’re never sold, never used for ads and never used to train AI models. You can export or delete everything from your account, any time.
My partner won’t do this. Is it still worth it?
Yes. Your side works on its own: you leave knowing what the fight is really about and how to say it. When you’re ready, send a link. Your partner joins free. They can join from any phone, iPhone or Android, with nothing to download and no account. You’re not the only one: in a study of people who tried to sign up for an online couples program, 52% had a partner who never finished signing up.
We already see a therapist. Is this for us?
Yes, between sessions. The fight doesn’t wait for your next appointment. Practice the conversation with Tara when it comes up, then take what you found back to your therapist.
How is this different from ChatGPT?
ChatGPT hears one side: yours. Tara hears you both, each on your own phone. She follows a real method (Kamal Sarma’s rules for feeling heard, and 3 yeses before anyone tries to fix anything), and she never says who’s right. Agreement feels good. A mediator gets you somewhere.
How do I cancel? Can I get a refund?
Cancel at least 24 hours before your 3 days end and you pay nothing. On iPhone, cancel in Settings. App Store purchases are refunded through Apple. On the web, cancel from your account. Bought on the web and a paid month didn’t help? Reply to any receipt and we’ll refund it.
