Rupture · Repair · Renew
The Repair
Six evenings with Tara. The core of what couples therapy teaches, at your own kitchen table.
No card. No sign-up. Twenty-five minutes, one phone between you.
Know the season you’re in.
The Repair was built for three of them. If one of these reads like your kitchen, you’re in the right place.
The slump
You found your person. Lately it just doesn't feel like it.
Nothing dramatic. Roommates with a shared calendar. Conversations that are all logistics. You miss them while they're in the room.
The loop
The same fight in different clothes, twice a week now.
Eggshells in your own kitchen. One of you chases the conversation, one of you leaves it, and both of you sleep badly afterwards.
The maybe
You'd try couples therapy, if it weren't $318 and a waitlist.
You don't need a diagnosis. You need the skills therapy teaches, without the Tuesday-afternoon appointment and the season of savings.
Here is the part nobody says out loud: nothing is wrong with either of you. Nobody ever taught you this. There is a trainable set of skills therapists spend session after session teaching, and research has refined it for fifty years. The Repair is that skill set, taught in six evenings, in your home, when the kids are down.
Six evenings. Six moves.
Each one takes you from somewhere you’ve been stuck to somewhere you can breathe.
Tap a card to see what you leave with
What it stands on.
One framework carries the method: WinWin Conversations. Three bodies of research hold it up.
WinWin Conversations
The spine of everything here, from Kamal Sarma's book: your job isn't to listen, it's to make them feel heard, and everybody has different rules for feeling heard.
The Gottman research
The physiology of fights: flooding, the Four Horsemen, repair attempts, and the finding that 69% of couple conflict never resolves, only softens.
Emotionally Focused Therapy
The dance beneath the fight: one pursues, one withdraws, and each move makes the other's worse. Sue Johnson's map of getting out.
Nonviolent Communication
The grammar of an honest sentence: observation, feeling, need, request. Marshall Rosenberg's four parts, in every untangle.
This is not therapy, and it says so. It’s the trainable part, trained.
What could cost you $15,000 is $25 a month
The average US divorce runs about $15,000. A single couples session runs $150 to $318, and a year of weekly therapy $8,000 and up. Your relationship shouldn’t have to wait for either.
The Untangle membership
7 days free.
$25
/month after
A year of everything costs less than one therapy session. The first week costs nothing at all.
Your first untangle is free, before any card Nothing charged until day 8 Cancel anytime, in a tap A month that doesn’t serve you gets refunded Your partner’s seat is included, always
Unlimited untangles
Tara mediating, one phone or two
The Repair
Six evenings of what couples therapy teaches
Six Renew decks
Card games for the good nights
Ten guided exercises
The homework of couples therapy, lineage named on every card
The Weekly
The 20-minute meeting therapists assign first
The Session Brief
Your week on one page, for your therapist
The mid-fight Toolbox
Free for everyone, forever
Everything we ship next
New decks and exercises included
The promise, in writing
Do all six evenings. If the two of you don’t fight better than you did, your money back, no questions, no forms. We can afford that promise because the method is older than we are.
Frequently asked
The questions you’re already asking.
Is this couples therapy?+
No, and we'll never pretend it is to you. It's the trainable communication core that therapy teaches, without the diagnosis or the treatment. If you're already seeing a therapist, tell Tara: she'll treat the evenings as practice between your sessions and steer the big discoveries back to their room, where they belong.
My partner will roll their eyes.+
Probably. Ours would too. That's exactly why Evening One is free, takes twenty-five minutes, and asks nothing of them except sitting on the couch they were already on. In our experience the eye-roll doesn't survive the part where you two pick a ridiculous time-out signal together and one of you laughs.
Why is it built on WinWin Conversations?+
Because the book found the thing under every technique: listening isn't the job, making the other person feel heard is, and everybody has different rules for feeling heard. Kamal Sarma built that framework over a decade of real rooms, and every one of Tara's moves runs on it. The Method page tells the hospital-room story it started with.
What if we start fighting in the middle of it?+
Evening One plans for exactly you: it teaches the ceasefire before anything else. Tara watches the temperature and slows the room down. You will never be asked to push through a flooded argument, and the mid-fight Toolbox is free if one starts on a Tuesday.
Why not just use the free untangles?+
Keep using them, they're staying free. But an untangle handles the fight in front of you; The Repair retrains the pattern that keeps producing the fights. One is the conversation, the other is the training.
What if it doesn't work for us?+
Then it costs you nothing. Do all six evenings; if the two of you don't fight better than before, every dollar back, no questions, no forms, no awkward call. That promise is in writing above.
What happens to what we say?+
It stays yours. Nothing you say is used to train AI models, nothing is shown to anyone, and you can delete all of it whenever you want. If anything unsafe ever comes up, Tara stops and points you to real humans first.
The same fight always comes back.
Until the two of you learn the moves it’s made of. Evening One is free, and tonight counts.
Do Evening One